Friday, December 3, 2010

Yemen Photo/s

This is a typical building style here in Sana'a. Very ornate and really quite gorgeous and even the newer buildings have this design on them. You can see the newer building to the left with less of the design but in the style of the older part of the building.
The man in the street is wearing a Maktop, male skirt of some type and the long white dress type outfit is called a Thop. These are spelled her phonetically...not correctly. Notice poking out of his waste area a rod (and no nasties), that is part of his traditional dagger.


Notice how clean the streets are and this is dry season. I have a great photo of this huge mountain of dirt...nothing growing on it at all and these mountains surround Sana'a so I can only imagine when the wind blows, the dirt flies.

Read down into earlier postings from today and yesterdays. I didn't realize that each upload would take as much as 20 minutes per. Going to be a labor of love. I LOVE you all. Bedtime and will try to upload more photos tomorrow.

Yemen

I am waiting for photos to upload and have just found out that PC call is also blocked here...all voice over programs are not allowed in Yemen. Photos are not loading...and am getting some message in Arabic. Betting I can't do this either.

While I was out walking, I saw a young man push another guy and whip out his knife and wave it menacingly at the other. I am told that the wearing of this is mostly traditional and used mostly when wearing the traditional garb and not used as a weapon. If someone is inclined to use a weapon, they will have a gun and that is more in the north of Yemen.

I passed an elderly man lying on a bench, with one shoe on and one not in sight. His shoeless foot had a huge open sore oozing pus. He clearly needs some medical help and I need to ask about access to that here. Getting differing stories on literacy rates and will find that out tomorrow when I am working with the newspapers.

Couldn't get signed into my blog this morning because it was showing up in Arabic...figured out that where things usually are on the right are now located on the left. They read right to left and so translations appear backwards with numbers on the left and moving over to the ends of the sentences on the right.

Going to try to upload photos first thing in the morning and see if this is just an issue with bandwidth and usage at this time of night. Betting this is also blocked.

Took a shower this morning and almost fell out of the bathtub. There is no flat bottom to the tub; it is totally curved and very narrow at the bottom. MY bottom wouldn't fit down there so had to stand on the sides of my feet to balance. Very unusual.

On the way to Yemen....

I arrived safely in Sana'a, Yemen around 3 a.m. this time and made it to sleep around 4 to be awakened by the call to prayer which quickly brought back fond memories of Iraq...went back to sleep, thankfully. The trip over was gruesome but filled, as always with many stories.

Our flight was full from Chicago to Istanbul so no chance to get any rest. Had to smile...saw an Arab woman completely covered and veiled lift her dress, flop her boob out and breast feed her baby. Now the irony of the situation made me just laugh...no part of her body was visible but she showed her whole breast to me and everyone else. NO covering that!

Two seats down from the breast feeding lady was a young Arab looking woman in the tightest, shortest mini-dress I have ever seen. She told me she was going to Saudi Arabia and I thought...not in that dress. An hour before we landed, she lugged a huge suitcase into the bathroom and came out transformed...all in black and covered head to foot. When in Rome....

Turkish Airlines food from Chicago to Istanbul was inedible so ate at a restaurant in the airport where they had free wifi. My drink was delivered and so was the bill...I was told, "you pay now." I suggested that I would pay later, AFTER my food had been delivered and eaten. Turk man, said, "You pay now" and some man near me let him have it in Turkish and my food arrived moments later. I thanked my helper and come to find out..he owned the restaurant and was very apologetic. Good help is hard to find everywhere, I guess.

Our flight to Sana'a was the opposite of the Chicago to Istanbul one. There were about 30 people on the whole plane, food delicious and when I went to be seated, there was a man sitting in my seat. He jumped up and moved to the window and when we noted the emptyness of the plane, he said he would move after take off to another aisle seat. Khaled and I began chatting and he is a Yemeni/Brit and was coming back from London where his wife and two kids live. They have a commuter marriage...sounded normal to me.

Khaled stayed sitting with me and we chatted about all things Yemeni. He shared the safety of his country, saying I could walk and explore in Sana'a freely. Corruption, he says, is nil; crime a rare thing, poverty huge, access to water, horrid. He had much to say about people's generosity, helpfulness and consideration and he later rode with me with the guy the hotel sent to pick me up. We were stopped by some cops standing in the road, one of whom saluted me and we were passed on. I was reminded of this happening in Tegucigalpa, when the cop demanded money so I could pass on. Khaled says this doesn't happen in his country.

We talked about terrorism and Khaled became very excited about what is printed and said about Yemenis in the media. He vehemently indicated that Yemenis are not terrorists and they dislike the upheaval and chaos perpetrated by extremist groups. He, himself is a Muslim, doesn't drink but says many Muslims are drunks. He dislikes the Qat chewing that goes on here and like in Africa, says it causes early death, a lack of productivity and because it is such a huge cash crop, food is not being grown on rural farms. They make more growing Qat. Interestingly, he mentioned he had been in London, getting ready for Christmas with his wife. Gift buying...apparently many practicing Muslims also celebrate the giving of gifts and the feasting found on Christmas...not a religious celebration but a time for celebrating family and friends. Liked that.

So, during dinner and for a couple of hours, we discussed the Yemen situation vis a vis the government, social issues, education, relationships with countries outside of the Arab region and more. He helped me remember my Arabic words and phrases I "learned" in Iraq so that I can greet my workshop participants and he shared his opinions of Yemeni media and the government's control of these. Oh, and he is the one that told me the government shut down skype here.

After our visit and after dinner, I moved across the aisle so we could both sleep. I asked for pillows, because there were none in the compartments above...flight attendant came back after rechecking the ones I had looked in and opened a bunch. NO pillows. He sweetly brought me two blankets so I tried those as pillows but just couldn't rest. Two young mothers with their children were a few rows behind me and grandma was sleeping in her own row. After one potty stop, one of the mom's asked me to tickle grandma's feet and they were giggling. I did so, grandma kept snoring. Young moms were hysterical...and later, they told her what they had had me do. She hadn't felt anything. A man picked the family up at the airport and the young mothers were pointing and laughing at me and grandma was smiling and bowing her head.

Went to breakfast at 9:30 and found that this hotel is owned by Indians. Reminded me of the Speke Hotel in Kampala. Very efficient and great food. Had some "Foul Medammes" which I decided needed to be used with bread and dipped, very tasty and no clue what is in it. Another dish, dijaz zukhar, was a spicy minced meat and sauce which I also scooped up into my bread and ate. It is some sort of Indian dish, I think, but very yummy. Khaled told me that there are no eggplant dishes like in Iraq, and in fact, told me that almost anything I experienced there would not be my experience here.

Second call to prayer happening now. Going to try to see if I can go take a few photos and walk nearby.

Monday, November 29, 2010

Getting ready to launch...trivia

I may have mentioned over time that we are very close with our neighbors...the evidence is right here! Bud, in the camo is a marine who will shortly be stationed in Georgia, way closer to home and his very best buddy, Wayne, who appears to be slipping Bud the tongue. He isn't really...just hamming it up. Miss these young men and miss seeing Alex with these two.


Went to Bradenton yesterday to visit Irma, a former Gannett colleague and a friend of several years. We had a great lunch and she even took me to Aldi's...yes, they are starting to move into Florida and I am praying they soon come to Ft. Myers to give Publix some much needed competition.

In Bradenton, there had been a sand carving contest and this huge recycling piece was just spectacular. The event was long over...very few people on the beach so we were able to get up close and personal with the art.

Getting old is really a bitch. All of a sudden you realize that you put the same photo on your blog twice in as many days. Sorry about that. Was thinking today as I get ready to leave that I often find myself thinking I need a man...you know, they add so much to one's life. Today, for example, I really needed my back scratched, right in that "not possible to reach" part of your back. The solution? Use a plastic long spoon and then quickly wash it while groaning at how yucky that was to use a spoon! And I always have to change my jewelry when I travel...from gold to silver. Less flashy and where I visit, this is a good thing. However, my gold bracelet doesn't catch or release one handed...an issue. Solution? Borrow a man! So, needed a man but got over it.

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Nothing special...just life

I went out walking the other morning and this group of birds was marching straight down our road...by the time I retrieved my camera, they were under the neighbor's orange tree pecking away. Another wonderful morning in Florida.
Annie sent this photo of David, Alex's uncle and Alex. I suggested the kid needed a shave and he said it is "No shave November." He will shave on 1 December....guess when in the wilderness, one behaves like he is in the wild. Annie and David hosted a huge dinner and Alex went, making a corn souffle as his contribution.

Now, these guys are not so special. We have these huge vultures that sun themselves every morning atop our home and our neighbors' houses. Near the canal, they watch for food and they scritch as they move across our roof...a bit spooky at 6 a.m. if one isn't expecting noise up there.
Today, while walking, I met Jer, not Jerry, Jer. He was having a "moment" and was lying next to the sidewalk, almost hidden under the bushes. These "moments" make him fall and sometimes, he passes out...he thought he had done that today. But, it is Saturday and most everyone walks M-F, so Jer was happy to see someone walking by the golf course. I helped him up and to his house...he didn't want me to call 911 but said he thought he might call his daughter to come sit with him. He was shaking badly and very unsteady...does anyone else have weird happenings while doing the mundane? Poor guy...wife died a few years ago and his dog died last year. He asked me to look for him another day...I wondered, "Where exactly should I look for him next? In the mangroves?" Hoping the old guy is OK.
Had a gift card with $5 left on it after shopping...gave the $5 to the sales clerk and she grinned from ear to ear. With her discount, she can buy a nice gift for her daughter. How do people pay for someone's groceries who is in line behind them? I am liking the pay it forward concept quite a bit.
Today was a bit tedious...starting to pack for Yemen. Thankfully, I looked again at their weather...all of a sudden 68F as a high and 32 as the low. Not like I can layer and take clothing off because I need to be covered up. Hassan said he would take me to see some sites of interest in Sana'a. Can't wait.
love


Thursday, November 25, 2010

Giving Thanks....

Happy Thanksgiving! Late fall and many of you are already experiencing heavy rain and snow...we here, in sunny Florida, are enjoying the flowers, flowering shrubs and the fruit laden trees. 85 today and I actually turned the air conditioning on again...yup, the end of November.
This morning, I went out for my daily walk and this group of birds was casually walking directly down our street...like they were out for their walk. By the time I went and got my camera, they had moved on to one of the homes on our street and were pecking away. Yes, that is an orange tree.

Today was a very special day. I have never celebrated Thanksgiving so alone and yet, with so many people. I talked and emailed friends and family and while my Hospice volunteering was cancelled, I had much to do around the house and then, this afternoon, I went to Ann's house to share dinner with her, her two sons, a daughter in law and her parents. We ate the best food ever. Ann is originally from Peru and her daughter in law and her mom are from Colombia. I enjoyed speaking Spanish with Gladis, Natalia's mom and we talked about how much I enjoyed her country and the time I spent in Medellin. She couldn't believe I attended a cabalgata which is a huge festival with hundreds of horses outfitted elegantly and ridden by incredibly well outfitted riders, many of whom play music and sing. I was reminded of all of the great Colombian foods I miss: Sancocho; Arepas; Bandeja Paisa and more. Surprisingly, Gladis had me say, "Bandeja Paisa" for her gringo husband, Jeff and he didn't hear the difference. She is someone I would like to get to know better...she and Jeff were great fun.
I missed my family but enjoyed seeing their family. Ann's sons and my sons (that would be Alex, Pat and Chris) would have loved the football, the laughing and the ribbing. Made me miss home and was so happy to be AT home.






I mentioned to Ann that I cannot sit down at such a beautifully appointed table, topped with ten or twelve different dishes and not think of the poor and what they had to eat today. Makes me very thankful indeed for all that I have.






On another note, my neighbor, Shirley and I were walking and she mentioned the Thai couple who built a home on the street behind ours. They are building a great garden and she mentioned that they brought her some jack fruit chips...ate a few last night and very tasty. And they also shared loofah with her...you know those pieces of hard stuff you wash your back with? Well, apparently, when green and unripe, you can eat them. Gotta try it.

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Updates....

Can't believe I havent' written in a month...trying to figure out what I have been doing. A lot of nothing, mostly. I have been volunteering for Hospice and enjoying that very much...finding I am not going to the nursing homes. I miss taking Chica with me...folks really could care less if I visit or talk with them, but with Chica in hand, smiles are immediate and even those with dementia enjoy snuggling and hugging her. Miss my doggies.

I have also had to adjust to living alone which I have decided to accept (no other choice) but I do not like it at all. Not liking going to bed alone and definitely hate coming into the house with no doggie at the door to greet me with unconditional love.

Spending about six hours per week in various Spanish classes and enjoying that quite a bit. Wishing that all the students were really at the "advanced" level so the class would move along more quickly but the other adults in the class come from diverse walks of life and that adds to the interest. Beginning to get comfortable with the Spanish again and have had several Hospice pick ups/sitting assignments in Spanish speaking homes so have had real life practice again.

Made plans to take McKenzie, Logan and Addison to Guatemala in February for about 9 days, of which five will be spent in language classes for about 5 hours per day. We will stay with host families and hopefully Mt. Picaya will be erupting or threatening to erupt so the kids can climb their first volcano. Lots to see and hoping to take in some ruins, churches, good food and take in some cultural events, including some outdoor dancing and music. The kids will love it. The Reicken Foundation has a library, I was told with some books newly written in the Mayan language, which we will try to see while there. Have to get in touch with Paul Guggenheim and set that up.

I am taking Stanley with me to Yemen...I think he will get new clothing and most likely will be renamed "Abdulkareem" which seems appropriate. Can't wait to share Yemen with the classroom of kids in Alabama and I am also to call in on Skype to Addison's classroom. This reminds me I need to get that set up with the teacher...don't know her/his name, email or Skype name. What did we do for communication before Facebook, Twitter, email and PC Call and Skype?

Photos coming...since I haven't been travelling, I haven't taken many but I did get a few birds the other day and will post them soon.

hugs to you all